It’s so hard not to compare yourself with others , the flower and fruit analogy is so true ! I need to remember this and also , people have different opportunities and head starts in life , we need to not beat ourselves up. Thank for this Sara.
Yes, Francis! This is so, so true. A friend and I were having that very conversation about that tension. It really sucks that we're all starting from different places, with different levels of support and influence. There's a lot of inequity. And still I believe that each of us has the right to our own trajectory. Phew. Not an easy thing to let go of comparison, that's for sure. But there's a lot more ease when I'm able.
It’s so hard not to compare yourself with others , the flower and fruit analogy is so true ! I need to remember this and also , people have different opportunities and head starts in life , we need to not beat ourselves up. Thank for this Sara.
Yes, Francis! This is so, so true. A friend and I were having that very conversation about that tension. It really sucks that we're all starting from different places, with different levels of support and influence. There's a lot of inequity. And still I believe that each of us has the right to our own trajectory. Phew. Not an easy thing to let go of comparison, that's for sure. But there's a lot more ease when I'm able.
Yes, I need to learn , I have a huge problem with injustice and need to let go for my own sanity 😊